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Darren Dowling

The importance of using the Internet

by Darren Dowling

Let us first understand that the Internet and modern communications technology can be a great force for good, a useful tool and can provide a powerful learning experience for young people.

The Internet IS used for criminal activities and it DOES contain illegal, harmful and dangerous material but then again so does your local street corner, your local school and library and just about any other place you care to think of.

To say that someone should stop using the Internet because of these nefarious activities is like saying people should stop using street corners because some of them are used for drug dealing.

Properly supervised and educated, there should be no reason why people young and old cannot use the Internet and associated techonologies to their advantage.

There are a few key rules and points to understand to make your online experience a safe and happy one. Just as you would not let your 8 year old child associate with any old stranger or enter any old house you should educate them (and yourself) as to the basic Do's and Dont's of using the Net.

Darren Dowling | webmaster@glne-scouts.org.uk

What are the risks?

by Darren Dowling

Exposure to inappropriate material

There is a wide range of material available on the internet and some of it is inappropriate for young people. This includes material that is sexual, hateful or violent in nature. It may also include material that encourages people to do something dangerous or illegal. Often you have to search this material out but it is possible that you may stumble across it on social networking sites, email, instant messaging, or even in a simple web search for innocent terms.

Physical harm

Although extremely rare it is possible that a young person may provide information that could risk their safety or the safety of others. In some cases people have used chat programs, email and instant messaging to gain a child's confidence and then arrange a face to face meeting.

Bullying

Communication mediums of all forms lend themselves easily to use by bullies or those seeking to harass someone.

Malware

For the inexperienced it can be quite easy to download a virus or other form of harmful software without realising the damage it can do to the computer or the information that could be gathered by its designer.

Legal & Financial

Without being taught strict guidelines it can be surprisingly easy to break the law (e.g. by downloading copyrighted material) or to incur a financial penalty (e.g. by giving out credit card details).

Advice for Young People

from Kid Smart

Safe

Keep safe by being careful not to give out personal information - such as your full name, email address, phone number, home address, photos or school name - to people you are chatting with online

Meeting

Meeting someone you have only been in touch with online can be dangerous. Only do so with your parents’ or carers’ permission and even then only when they can be present

Accepting

Accepting emails, IM messages, or opening files, pictures or texts from people you don’t know or trust can lead to problems - they may contain viruses or nasty messages!

Reliable

Information you find on the internet may not be true, or someone online may be lying about who they are

Tell

Tell your parent, carer or a trusted adult if someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable or worried online

Advice for Parents & Leaders

by Darren Dowling

Careful with contact

Contact with young people, using a website, mailing list, text messaging, emails, instant messaging and other technology can bring a great benefit to improving communications and relationships in Scouting. However, leaders should be aware that the advice given on the ‘Yellow Card’ also applies to contact online with young people.

Wise with Websites

Websites can be an excellent resource and communication tool. Leaders should be aware of the advice given for Scouting Websites by HQ in their factsheet and should take care to only pass on links to websites that are appropriate for young people.

Extra careful with emails

Emails should always be carefully written and stick to the guidelines laid down on the ’Yellow Card’. Take time to review the content of an email and who you are sending it to before you let it loose on the internet. Do not pass on hoax emails, attachments, links to websites, jokes etc without carefully checking content and facts.

Savvy with Social Networking

Social Networking sites such as Myspace, Bebo and Facebook encourage users to ‘network’ with each other by sharing likes, dislikes, thoughts, photos and videos. Leaders need to take care when communicating with young people via these mediums that they do not engage in any activities that they would not consider doing face to face. Do not chat with young people and exchange the type of messages you would with your ‘friends down the pub’.

Tread carefully with Text Messages

Text Messaging (sending text messages via a mobile phone) can be a quick and easy method of communication. Leaders need to be aware that the content of short text messages can easily be misconstrued and need to think carefully about exchanging photos. Inappropriate content such as ‘dirty jokes’ and rude photos or videos should never be sent between leaders and young people.

Careful with contact

Instant Messaging allows you to chat in real time by using a program such as ‘MSN’ or Jabber. Leaders need to think carefully about what they are typing and need to be careful not to engage in a conversation that you wouldn’t normally have in front of other leaders and young people. It would be advisable to turn on the logging feature and keep a record of all the ‘chats’ and to report anything that was inappropriate to a responsible leader straight away.

Figure out Forums

Forums allow users to post notices up, much like an old-fashioned bulletin board. Be sure to only allow registered and verified users to post on forums and to ensure that messages are moderated and checked for content. Keep an eye on private messages sent via the forum software as well.

Juggle the Jargon

Jargon and software: Many leaders are unaware of technologies and terminologies used online. Be sure to visit the Jargon Buster page for advice and simple explanations of the terms and types of programs mentioned on this site.

No subsitute for Supervision

Make sure the computer is used in a public place. Get to know the programs the child uses, and their friends online, and how the technology works. There are filtering options available but they are far from fully effective. Nothing can beat good old fashioned adult supervision coupled with a working knowledge of the technology and dangers involved

Revise the Rules

Read all of the advice below. Make sure you understand it. If there are any terms or bits you dont quite get speak to a local expert and make sure you understand them.

Make sure there is no Public Meeting

Never allow a child to arrange a face-to-face meeting with another computer user without parental permission. If a meeting is arranged, make the first one in a public spot, and be sure to accompany your child.

Do something about Dodgy & Dangerous Material

If you come across anything you dont like the look of online or anything you may think is illegal do something about it. Report it to one of the online agencies (see the useful links) or your local police station

Give Guidelines

Set reasonable rules and guidlines for using the computer. Discuss these with the child and make sure there is a copy nearby where they can see it. Make sure they stick to the rules.

Using Email

  • Only give your email address out to people you already know and trust – not to people you have only met online.
  • Make sure your email address is not available elsewhere (e.g. in your profile information on a website)
  • Do not give out your friends email address without their permission
  • Do not use emails to bully or manipulate others.
  • Save all your emails. If somebody is bullying or harassing you via email, then keep the email and don’t delete it. You don’t need to read it, just save it. Report it to an adult straight away. Keep the email until you have discussed how to stop it with somebody you trust.
  • Tell someone if you receive a message or messages that are bullying, or make you feel uncomfortable or at danger. Tell your parents, or a teacher or counsellor at school. Even telling your friends can help. There are organisations where you can receive advice anonymously, such as Childline (0800 1111). If the message or messages you have received are threatening or harassing then you should inform the police.
  • Learn how to block and ignore people
  • You can always change your email address if you still receive unwanted messages.
  • It is good practice to have more than one account. You can use one for your close friends and family. You can use another to enter competitions or sign up to websites.
  • Choosing an email address that is difficult to guess can help to keep it private and to cut down on spam emails.
  • Do not open attachements unless you have asked for them and they come from someone you know well. Attachements may contain unwanted material or a virus which will do harm to your computer in some way
  • Do not click on any links or follow any instructions in unwanted email (spam).
  • Do not forward spam or chain emails to your friends, no matter what is says
  • Do not put your email address anywhere on the Internet, in a profile or on a personal website for example. It is worth using a separate account to your personal one when entering competitions or other things online that require an email address.
  • Only give out your personal email address to family and friends.
  • Never reply to spam. Even if it says ‘unsubscribe’ or ‘Be removed from the list’ do not reply, as it may just confirm your email address to the sender and may mean you get even more spam!
  • Spam filters or junk mail filters can offer some protection by diverting suspected spam into a junk mail folder – ask your provider about this.
  • Treat people how you would like to be treated yourself

Using Instant Messaging

  • Only add people who you know in real life.
  • People may not be who they say they are. They may claim to be someone you know but may in fact be a total stranger
  • Keep your personal information secret when talking to someone you don’t know in the real world. Also think about what visible information you have, for example in your Profile or Member directory.
  • Keep a record of all your conversations and don’t be afraid to tell someone you are saving their conversation
  • Make sure you know how to to block and ignore people
  • Check you know how to report something you feel uncomfortable about (see the useful links)
  • Use a nickname, not your real name, and a nickname that is not going to attract the wrong type of attention.
  • Keep your username and password private, and change your password on a regular basis
  • Don’t reply to abusive messages. Don’t send abusive messages either. Don't say anything that you wouldn’t say to someone’s face.
  • Don’t accept messages from people you don’t know.
  • You should never meet someone who you have known online unless you do so in a very controlled way. You must take a parent with you and meet in a public place during the daytime.
  • If you see something you dont like or that makes you feel uncomfortable report it straight away to an adult

Social Networking Sites

  • Think about what you post. Things that you think are private today could easily become public tomorrow. Some people may use information against you.
  • Once it is posted on the internet consider it a permanent fixture. You may delete it but copies, backups, webcrawlers, caches and such like ensure that the information will stay around in some form. If you dont want anyone to see it at a later date then never put it online.
  • Be very careful of how other people "seem to be". They may be a completely different type of person in real life and it is possible they are just being nice and kind so that they can work their way into your confidence for their own reasons.
  • Do not talk about sex with strangers. If you feel uncomfortable at all then end the discussion and speak to an adult or the police
  • You should never meet someone who you have known online unless you do so in a very controlled way. You must take a parent with you and meet in a public place during the daytime.
  • Never put your full address on your site.
  • Use a nickname and not your real name
  • Do not pretend to be a different age to what you are. If you are under 18 you do not want other adults thinking you are an adult and trying to contact you
  • Do not put any real life contact details on the site, like your mobile number. Any real friends you have will know this already!
  • Play around with the Privacy settings. Set it up so that only your friends can instant message you or view your photos.
  • Be very careful who you accept as a 'friend' on the site

'Chat Rooms'

  • People online should be treated as strangers, no matter how long you may have known them. They may be who they say they are and may behave in a completely different online to what they would in real life.
  • You should never meet someone who you have known online unless you do so in a very controlled way. You must take a parent with you and meet in a public place during the daytime.
  • Never give out any personal information. This includes your name, address, phone number, mobile number, email address, pictures and anything else you wouldnt normally give to a stranger who came up to you in the street.
  • Make sure this information doesnt appear in your profile or is 'broadcast' in any other way.
  • If you dont like what is happening or it does not feel right then just log out immediately.
  • Be very careful about engaging in private messaging. You may give away more personal details than you would like.
  • Use a nickname, not your real name, and a nickname that is not going to attract the wrong type of attention.
  • Look out for your friends and do something if you think that they are at risk.
  • Tell your parent or carer if someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable or worried.
  • Keep a log (a record) of everything that is said during the chat. This may be useful if you want to report something.

Mobile Phones

  • Only give your mobile number out to people you already know and trust.
  • You should never meet someone who you have talked to on the phone unless you do so in a very controlled way. You must take a parent with you and meet in a public place during the daytime.
  • Do not give out your friends phone number without their permission.
  • Learn how to block people and how to instantly end a call.
  • Get your friends’ permission before taking pictures of them, and especially before sending pictures to someone else or to the Internet. Remember that as soon as you have sent them, you can’t control where they end up.
  • Look after each other and think about what you send to people. Be polite and respectful. It can be very easy to misread or misunderstand a text message
  • Never reply to text messages from people you don’t know. This includes spam.
  • Ring tones, music, wap, browsing the internet and other services will cost you money, sometimes a lot of money. Be very careful how you use these extra services.

Posting Videos Online

  • Never post anything you wouldnt show your parents or teacher
  • Make sure you have the permission of the people who appear in the video or who are mentioned in the video
  • Make sure you do not make any false accusations or otherwise break the law
  • Be careful of people taking a video of you. Speak to an adult straight away if you have any concerns. Remember almost any mobile phone today can take videos and pictures
  • Make sure you follow the rules and code of conduct of the site that is hosting the video (e.g. Youtube)
  • Think about other peoples feelings. Is your video going to be seen as bullying or harassing someone?
  • Be careful you do not fall foul of copyright laws. You should seek permission to use any comments, quotes, text, video, music etc